Thoughts by Jim VanErmen ABR CRS

Thanksgiving 2004 a time to remember!
My Story

For two - three weeks before Thanksgiving week 2004, I had been fighting what I thought was either a cold or the flu.   Losing the battle I figured things had progressed to possible pneumonia.  On the news at the time the Vice President (Dick Cheney) was reported to have been seen by the doctors at Walter Reed with shortness of  breath and he was diagnosed with upper respiratory infection.  I figured it probably was the same with me.

Tuesday two days before Thanksgiving, Glenda my loving wife, strongly encouraged me to seek "competent medical advice"  something like "you see the doctor TODAY!"  The appointments for the day had me showing houses in the morning and viewing cabinetry with buyers who were under contract to buy a new home being completed.  As things would go the morning appointment canceled leaving me time to see my friendly doctor in Prattville. 

Doctor Martin A. J. Wybenga M.D. listened to my chest and more or less agreed with my diagnosis of fluid / congestion in the lungs (probably pneumonia).  I figured a quick shot  a few prescriptions and I would be on my way.  He requested before leaving that I sit for a few X-rays so he could better see what was truly happening.  I wondered if the old medical consortium was now making additions to their Christmas funds by sending me for additional "procedures".  Well the morning was soon over and I was back in the good doctor's office so we could look at "shades of gray on plastic film". 

Upon his careful examination he stated he no longer suspected pneumonia but it appeared to him to be congestive heart failure.  My first reaction was that the terms heart and failure should not be used in the same sentence.  Second reaction was what does he know.  Wasn't the radiologist the expert in these matters.  A little while later the radiologist confirmed the good doctor,s diagnosis.  I think the questions were "Who is your cardiologist?  Where would you like to be seen?  Hey, its Thanksgiving it may not be easy to find anyone who will see you!"

A quick drive back into Montgomery and I was on my way to see my new cardiologist Dr. Charles Hastey.  Now late afternoon, with x-rays in hand (a feat not easily accomplished since the x-rays did not really belong to me, even though they were of my chest and bought by me!), I met with Dr. Hastey who was kind to fit me into his pre holiday schedule.  He looked at the x-rays and marveled that I was still able to sit and function.  He said with a little chuckle that I probably was NOT laying down when I slept at night (true!).  Since the matter appeared to be a little more serious then I had anticipated, Dr. Hastey
immediately admitted me  to the emergency room at Jackson Hospital awaiting admittance to the "heart" floor.

My loving wife Glenda and I waited in the emergency room until just past midnight that evening when a room finally became available.  I guess it was part of the pre Thanksgiving hospital rush.  They administered a diuretic and I lost a gallon of fluid before the sunrise and was feeling a whole lot better.  Wednesday morning I was scheduled for an
echo cardiogram which was taped and the tape given to Dr. Hastey.  I figure the tape would probably not have much if any BlockBuster appeal but you never know.

Dr. Hastey came into the room around midmorning and was not encouraging at all to say the least!  Glenda and I cannot remember his exact words but any assurances to a future long and happy life were not a part of his discussion.  Something unknown had caused extensive damage to my heart.  They would keep me in the hospital over Thanksgiving to "stabilize" my condition and perform an Angiography of a cardiac catherterization.  It was hoped this would shed more light on the problem and provide a course of action.  Possible scenarios included: Viral infection (maybe treatable maybe...)  Possible heart transplant which I may or may not be a good "candidate".  Arterial blockage with possible a stint to improve the condition.  Etc.  Any action may or may not allow the heart to regenerate or improve.

Thanksgiving was spent with only the immediate family and few friends who somehow discovered that I was in the hospital.  Not  knowing my condition, diagnosis, or treatment it was decided to just wait and see before we let family and friends know what was happening.  Saturday arrived and Dr. Hastey performed the procedure and noted blockage (95%) in three arteries and scheduled me for surgery the Monday morning

I thought it to be rather odd that I had gone from a simple shot in the doctor's office with my diagnosis to major heart surgery in a rather short period of time.  The triple by-pass was performed by doctor William Cook M.D. and took 6 hours.  I do not remember much until late Tuesday and stayed in the emergency ward for two days before returning to the heart ward.  Total time in the hospital ended up being 15 days.  Recovery outside the hospital was another month with Glenda helping as I continued to show homes (just couldn't drive).

 EPILOGUE:  The decisions on the cabinets (appointment I missed in all the excitement) were made without me and somehow turned out just fine.  And, as if Glenda had not spent enough time in the hospital, Donna (our daughter) was admitted into Baptist East 2 weeks after my discharge in preparation / monitoring before she delivered our first little granddaughter Emma Jane about a month early.  Emma Jane was born on December 24th Christmas eve and weighed a little over 5 pounds.  Both mother, father, grandmother and now grandpa Jim ended up fine along with "little" Emma Jane Stricklin and all had a very thankful Christmas that year.


Editor Jim VanErmen is a licensed Alabama Real Estate Broker employed as an Associate Broker with Montgomery Metro Realty, Inc.
Approved Alabama Real Estate Instructor / Educator, Co-Founder Central Alabama Real Estate Academy
email Jim at  jimvanermen@yahoo.com
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